anonnano
February 18, 2025 at 8:28:09 AM
I have some questions that I want to ask, though I am autistic so i’m very sorry if my tone comes off as tone deaf or standoffish or rude, it isnt my intention to, but what’s the difference between “anti-c” and “pro-c” and how on earth do you know whether they’re just saying that to just not be harassed or they actually mean it? I’m not one for ship discourse but y’all sort is real intriguing to me.
There’s also those who refer to those called “antis” as ehh hitler-adjacent n whatnot, why do you think that is? I’ve seen a lot of y’all bring up incest, necro, etc, and some of y’all act like people disliking it is some sort of giant opressive force towards you, even though necro and incest and that sort of thing is usually looked down upon by a majority of society because it’s perpetuated by conservatives, why so? Like I do know this one artist who drew feral called people who didnt really like it “culture colonizers” and i think that might have been in bad taste becauze of the fact that she was white..
Last question, not sure if it’s more of a statement, but I believe that if done well there can be some profic elements in stories, as I’m creating my own sort of story and it’s got some profic stuff like noncon, but i’m a little scared of posting it because of people with a high lack in media literacy, would you have any ideas of how I can bring this up?
If you dont answer i understand but i do want to learn more about how y’all think or what your thought processes are and maybe figure out my own path in all this too.
Replied on: February 18, 2025 at 11:27:56 AM
Hello, thank you for asking these questions! Let me jump right into it 4 u.
The c stances aren't anything to do with fiction, pro-c means pro contact and anti-c means anti contact, both stances are about real life abuse outside of fiction. I am obviously anti-c because I don't condone real life abuse onto others and everything drawn is obviously fiction and will STRICTLY stay that way. I have **pro-c DNI** in bio because I don't want anything to do with people who use pride to proclaim themselves as actual zoophiles/pedophiles interacting with me period, because I've had instances where people who condone these abusive behaviors try wiggling themselves into strictly fictional spaces with me and my friends, so none of this has anything to do with ship discourse rather a real dangerous issue that should be spoken about more.
I know other people have but I've never called "antis" such a thing I don't hate "antis" just annoyed by the ones who think harassing others over fiction is okay, I believe people can change and do better so there's no room in my heart for hate rather room for growth and improvement. the most hateful people can change.
I don't think people being uncomfortable by fictional taboos is a bad thing, actually, people deserve to curate their own space and if they don't like certain taboos that is more than okay! What isn't okay is when they go out of their way to harass, dox, and destroy people's lives over fiction. I think it's pretty unnecessary and disgusting prioritizing fictional characters that don't actually exist over real human beings that are living and breathing. I think in some aspects people do have a right to feel oppressed when they have people telling them to kill themselves, stuff like that but that's why I've grown from giving attention to people who wish death apon me because I am now in a safe environment and have developed becoming numb to such things as death threats. I don't think all "antis" go out of their way to do these things though, infact, I'm friends with a few who are respectful of me and my work and respect me as a person instead of disregarding my entire existence over stupid fictional stuff. My say so on these things are simply don't like? Don't look but if you enjoy it that's dope
When it comes to writing you should be able to write whatever you want because at the end of the day you have free will. I'm assuming you may be writing on AO3? If you're scared about your friends seeing the work you made you could possibly publish it anonymously or under an entirely different account, a lot of "antis" do this when they secretly indulge in dark fiction.
I hope I was able 2 guide u in some ways!
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